tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post4944588433384034087..comments2023-04-26T09:02:11.428-07:00Comments on Carlamuses: In case you're not on my email list...Carla Zilbersmithhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/18170926133449647900noreply@blogger.comBlogger27125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-19344373915045958712010-01-25T00:22:13.271-08:002010-01-25T00:22:13.271-08:00I love you...I love you...Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-36262383638710711752010-01-03T16:39:50.012-08:002010-01-03T16:39:50.012-08:00You are magical! I have loved each and everyone of...You are magical! I have loved each and everyone of your posts.....Godspeed and I wish your transition is spectacular.....many Irish Canadian Blessings, MaureenAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-56758960019353694022010-01-01T21:37:16.273-08:002010-01-01T21:37:16.273-08:00"How does one become a butterfly?" she a..."How does one become a butterfly?" she asked pensively.<br />"You have to want to fly so badly that you are willing to give up being a caterpillar."<br />"You mean to die?" asked Yellow.<br />"Yes and no," he answered. "what looks like you will die, but what's really, you will live."Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-36476295851316958052010-01-01T18:54:00.533-08:002010-01-01T18:54:00.533-08:00January 1, 2010
Dearest Carla,
Just to let you kn...January 1, 2010<br /><br />Dearest Carla,<br />Just to let you know I am thinking of you and Maclen today. May you have peace in the days ahead.<br />Namaste,<br />JaniceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-87473987367463768342010-01-01T00:59:02.790-08:002010-01-01T00:59:02.790-08:00It is January 1st TWENTY-TEN...I bet few of us gro...It is January 1st TWENTY-TEN...I bet few of us growing up thought about the years past TWENTY-HUNDRED. Carla...amazing isn't it.<br /><br />Claudia made comments about you being an inspiration and her regret of not knowing you when you were younger. I think many of us that read your blog, hear the stories about you from others feel the same way. Whether we are men or women we all know it would have been a peak-life experience to hang out with you. I suspect that your muses feel that way now.<br /><br />I honor you past, your present and your future in whatever unfolds. You are what makes life so valuable. All that you experience, the good and bad you capture in your words and share with the rest of us.<br /><br />I can't put it into words how much pure human love I have for you and your world.<br /><br />Anytime I write a comment for your blog I just don't want to stop the flow of feelings.<br /><br />JOYOUS NEW DAY seem more appropriate than NEW YEAR.<br /><br /><br />NamasteAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-37720535416613666112010-01-01T00:46:45.814-08:002010-01-01T00:46:45.814-08:00Carla, speaking of Starbucks:
156 Countries Sing ...Carla, speaking of Starbucks:<br /><br />156 Countries Sing Together for the Starbucks Love Project<br /><br />http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Nh7D2g5v-Sg<br /><br />This seems like something you would appreciate...the music and the people.<br /><br />-aAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-80803120295759827822009-12-30T12:31:45.353-08:002009-12-30T12:31:45.353-08:00Dearest Carla; I wish I had wonderful words in my...Dearest Carla; I wish I had wonderful words in my head that could come to print and let you know how touching your words are. Just saying that doesn't seem enough, my vocabulary is unfortunately limited. You are so right that it is not being dead that hurts - it's the dying that is hard. I don't know much about Buddists or Muslims but being a Christian I know we have no idea what is on the other side. It is what you do while you are living that makes the difference and you have done so very well. So many people have learned from you and been affected by your presence and that is what is meant by living on after death. You have been an inspiration and a delight to know through your written word. It is only natural that you will leave a large void in the hearts of your parents. You will also be always on their minds and their memories will be full of wonderful moments. As for your son, you are in him and will always be a part of him and someday he will probably have a little person who has red hair and is as vivacious and out spoken as you are and he will look at that person and see you.Gail Hildebrandtnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-84208434289330309322009-12-30T07:44:38.791-08:002009-12-30T07:44:38.791-08:00My calendar arrived last week and it was AMAZING. ...My calendar arrived last week and it was AMAZING. I laughed and I cried, just like I do every time I read your stories.Angelnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-89087359421106997602009-12-29T23:49:42.409-08:002009-12-29T23:49:42.409-08:00I've been following your blog for a few months...I've been following your blog for a few months. Your posts have been brave, honest and courageous. Thank you.<br /><br />From a Buddhist who does not think that you'll become an ant, I enjoyed this post, and I agree with Peter Pan. I think death will be a big adventure, and afterward, I think, will be the biggest adventure of all.<br /><br />From one musician/performer to another, it would be cool if you could help me get a gig when I meet you afterward.Mike McLarenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17881672365554137673noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-56574960658786469762009-12-29T21:50:57.114-08:002009-12-29T21:50:57.114-08:00This show is so informative in what Carla's bo...This show is so informative in what Carla's body AND THE REST of us are dealing with. It is an amazing documentary:<br /><br /> NOVA: What Darwin Never Knew<br /><br />http://www.pbs.org/wgbh/nova/beta/evolution/darwin-never-knew.htmlAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-39466411744777929652009-12-29T16:10:44.745-08:002009-12-29T16:10:44.745-08:00Carla:
I recently stumbled upon your blog and have...Carla:<br />I recently stumbled upon your blog and have been blown away by your brutal honesty and willingness to expose your vulnerabilities to the world. Your inner beauty, ability to find humour in living with ALS, strength and enormous talent shine through your words (and vlogs). You are an inspiration and have shown your readers how to face a debilitating illness with strength, compassion and courage. SaraTauralaurahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/03144882272168434897noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-69216841546709383042009-12-29T12:39:48.582-08:002009-12-29T12:39:48.582-08:00As a red head, I can truly appreciate not only the...As a red head, I can truly appreciate not only the sacrifice you are making for someone else, but I also know the joy that red hair - your gorgeous, lushious red hair - will bring to the recipient. What an amazing, selfless gift. I'm so sad for your losses during this last year (and the prior years as well). I am so thankful for the lessons you have taught me, though. I hope the new year brings you all laughter and no tears (unless they are for joyous things).<br /><br />--lisa oAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-15547946453789844542009-12-29T06:09:04.796-08:002009-12-29T06:09:04.796-08:00I just wanted to let you know I bought the calenda...I just wanted to let you know I bought the calendar for my step-father who was diagnosed in July of this year. I gave it to him for Christmas and he absolutely LOVED it! Of course January was his favorite picture and “my cock still works” was his favorite caption! Thanks for putting it together; you put a big smile on his face!Anonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/12286302618624909218noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-15090245305464012962009-12-29T05:44:02.351-08:002009-12-29T05:44:02.351-08:00Dear Carla,
I can’t remember where I found your b...Dear Carla,<br /><br />I can’t remember where I found your blog (SFGate maybe?), but I’ve been reading it since shortly after your diagnosis. I was shocked to learn you are in hospice. I’ve been paying attention here, so I don’t know why I should be. But I knew I had to send this note, whether it gets read to you or not. I couldn’t let you go without telling you that I, like many of your muselings, have laughed with you, cried with you and for you, and checked in every day for your next missive. Thank you for sharing this journey with us. You have come into my life and changed me in ways I likely have yet to discover, and I will never forget you. You are an amazing person, with an almost-equally amazing circle of friends, and an incredible son. I am certain I wouldn’t be as brave as all of you are in the same circumstances. I feel like I am losing a beloved smart, funny, wonderful friend, and wish I had actually known you. I will miss you, Carla.<br /><br />Kathy in ColoradoKathleenhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14014289870779488644noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-80802004895731523882009-12-26T14:35:22.269-08:002009-12-26T14:35:22.269-08:00stopped by today to say have a blessed holiday sea...stopped by today to say have a blessed holiday season. Thinking of you and sending love your way.<br /><br />peace,<br />Maggiemaggienoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-22857568183959669542009-12-25T16:05:39.412-08:002009-12-25T16:05:39.412-08:00Dear Carla Christmas day thinking of you and your ...Dear Carla Christmas day thinking of you and your post and the thought of losing you and I haven't come to terms with that and can't bear to think of you unable to do the most basic things. (Can't imagine it because you are in my mind the most capable of people). Please feel the love I want to send you on this snowy cold New York day. So grateful to you for making me appreciate the things I have and wish I could give them to you. <br /><br />You are so generous to give your beautiful red hair. You will look cute with short hair though. And like another poster my tear ducts are cleaned out, wet and fresh.<br />much love xxoo forever Nancy aka: RockislandredAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-56195923864641932262009-12-25T10:36:20.104-08:002009-12-25T10:36:20.104-08:00Dear Carla, Happy Boxing Day! lovely post! Annem...Dear Carla, Happy Boxing Day! lovely post! AnnemarieAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-61328299382278548582009-12-25T08:28:24.347-08:002009-12-25T08:28:24.347-08:00Beautiful Carla ~
I have found this blog of yours...Beautiful Carla ~<br /><br />I have found this blog of yours on Christmas morning.<br />Whatever importance that date may or may not have, I am grateful beyond words.<br /><br />I knew you for a very short time, on stage and in the dressing room of Threepenny Opera at College of Marin.<br />You were inspiring to me then and yet more inspiring to me today.<br /><br />Your words are a finer gift than any one could possibly receive Christmas day or an other day of the year in eternity.<br /><br />I am going to go read your son's blog now.<br /><br />Thank you, Carla.<br />Miracles are everywhere on earth and in heaven and everywhere else, as well, and you are one, more than grand.<br /><br />Daria BauerKiddoSpark-DariaBhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16022295725313020234noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-66132401112652721052009-12-25T02:25:32.111-08:002009-12-25T02:25:32.111-08:00And, yes, I have my calendar on my wall already! ...And, yes, I have my calendar on my wall already! AmaZing!<br />ClaudiaUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18445327871472056993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-50575838430120844192009-12-25T02:23:55.215-08:002009-12-25T02:23:55.215-08:00Carla...thank you for being my incredible inspirat...Carla...thank you for being my incredible inspiration and tear duct cleaner-outer; you are amazing. I appreciate you and my life and my children in ways I wouldn't have dreamed possible. Your frankness in the face of death is astonishing and beautiful and inspiring and funny and great and I love you for it all.<br />Thank you. My regret? That I never really knew you for real, never got to hang out with you, get drunk with you, do dastardly things with you...get into trouble with you. You are a kindred spirit and I treasure the little connection I have of you. And I love that some person somewhere will have the most glorious red curls on the planet because of you. We redheads are an awesome breed.<br />love,<br />ClaudiaUnknownhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/18445327871472056993noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-53173499655841191972009-12-24T23:52:19.625-08:002009-12-24T23:52:19.625-08:00It's Christmas Eve, I should really be sleepin...It's Christmas Eve, I should really be sleeping right now, but I have to thank you for your wisdom on letting go of all the itchy fiberglass insulation, setting yourself free, not being dependent on all the unnecessary bullshit in our psyches, lives, whatever and whoever. Once again, your descriptive, cutting and edgy words have hit the nail on the head. Thanks for the gift of your writing, Santa Carla.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-55055497171306401602009-12-24T11:54:29.259-08:002009-12-24T11:54:29.259-08:00Your friend Leslie just pointed me in the directio...Your friend Leslie just pointed me in the direction of your blogspot. I met her a bit ago at the starbucks that was indeed not anywhere near I-5. I have read your current post and I felt the need to say "thank you." So, thank you. <br />I don't know how to express to you that your son, Mac, will be well looked after, noticed, loved, and 'held up in the highest.' (That's a phrase that my Grandma used to use, and would actually bother me, but now I understand it much more acutely.)<br />I hope sometime soon to run into him, buy him a cup of over-priced joe, and send him on his way to continue to be that wonder that he already appears to be. <br /><br />Much love,<br />Yvany PAnonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-79386841404541822372009-12-24T10:55:18.638-08:002009-12-24T10:55:18.638-08:00You're right as always - not being able to pic...You're right as always - not being able to pick one's own nose really sucksBrucehttps://www.blogger.com/profile/17861281870259010638noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-29791213341192975502009-12-24T10:41:45.311-08:002009-12-24T10:41:45.311-08:00Dear Carla: I bought the damn calendar - it's...Dear Carla: I bought the damn calendar - it's the least I can do. I am taking your Holiday Comments to heart. Bless you for your wit and wisdom.<br /><br />With warmest wishes and thanks for taking so many of us along for the ride,<br /><br />Vicky (Alison's friend)Vickyhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/14190888051321451729noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-36459071.post-71330176187854084012009-12-24T07:14:20.250-08:002009-12-24T07:14:20.250-08:00Dearest One
We have never met Carla, and yet I wak...Dearest One<br />We have never met Carla, and yet I wake up most mornings and go to your blog immediately to see if something new has been written. I keep you in my prayers, wish for happiness, ease and grace to surround you, and thank you daily for the tremendous gifts you have given me, by sharing your journey and the amazing, unbelievable courage you demonstrate, every day of your life. You have brought so much to me, have reminded me of gratitude for all things, have helped me embrace my own difficulties and losses, and have caused me to marvel at your humor, wit and views on just about everything. You have deeply, deeply touched me.<br /> So, know you held fiercely in my heart. Whatever grace is named, may it always surround, embrace and hold you... <br />Love, another Canadian Sister<br />( Montreal- home of the most amazing Bagels, Cherry Blossoms and Smarties)<br />nanceAnonymousnoreply@blogger.com